How does god give free will?

Yes. It is a real choice. Every single choice you make and everything you decide to do is dependent on that choice. God only provides you with the details , and you make up your own mind, which decides your destiny. For instance, it is basic knowledge that you must read the Bible in order to be knowledgeable about how God wants you to live your life, correct? So if you haven't done that, and have no plans to do so in the future, then you will have no idea what He expects of you, so therefore, you are doomed to Hell. Not saying that you are, but you must accept this as a real possibility. And you would therefore need to ask yourself...do the the people who maake a real effort to know Jesus deserve to share the same fate as those who never even cared enough to? Based on that, what do you want to do now? Doesn't that thought make you want to pray, and ask God what you must do? It never hurts to be sure rather than sorry in the end. God bless.